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Emotionally preparing for divorce

On Behalf of | Aug 11, 2021 | Divorce |

Virtually no one decides to get married with the expectation that the union will not last. Even if a couple has been struggling for some time, it can still come as a surprise when a spouse asks for a divorce. An unexpected divorce can leave people in Alabama feeling worried about what their finances will look like in the future, but it is important to remember that this process can also take an emotional toll. 

Prioritizing children 

Divorce has an added layer of complexity for parents. When possible, parents should try to reconcile in the best possible way to avoid introducing further conflict into their children’s lives. This is especially important for those who plan to co-parent or share joint custody. It is also helpful to strive for a positive reconciliation even if one’s ex is not cooperating, such as by bad mouthing him or her to their children. 

Leave emotions out of it 

Divorce is just as much an emotional process as a legal one, but that does not mean emotions should play a role in certain decisions. When it comes to property division, it may even be helpful to think about the marriage as a business instead. A few ways to address one’s emotions outside of the divorce process include: 

  • Therapy 
  • Divorce support groups 
  • Spending time with friends and loved ones 

There might be times in life when it is appropriate to let emotions run the show. However, divorce is not one of them. Divorcing couples in Alabama should understand that making decisions based on emotions rather than how they might affect the future can ultimately lead to less than ideal divorce settlements.